I've got a ticket to Momocon on Sunday as well, and for the aquarium on Monday, where a bunch of critters are preparing to meet up at noon or so. Mom encouraged me to go see the Margaret Mitchell house and museum, but I don't think so. I've read just enough of Gone with the Wind to feel very sorry that such a talented writer wrote such a book. I'll need to find some other way to occupy myself tomorrow. Apparently one can tour Marvel filming sites?
I've got a ticket to Momocon on Sunday as well, and for the aquarium on Monday, where a bunch of critters are preparing to meet up at noon or so. Mom encouraged me to go see the Margaret Mitchell house and museum, but I don't think so. I've read just enough of Gone with the Wind to feel very sorry that such a talented writer wrote such a book. I'll need to find some other way to occupy myself tomorrow. Apparently one can tour Marvel filming sites?
- 1. Amnesty International on the growth of transphobia in the UK
- (tags:UK bigotry LGBT transgender media )
- 2. Health and Safe-Tea at Work: Brewing Time (an advert that made me giggle on the bus)
- (tags:tea video advertising funny )
- 3. What does the new EHRC guide say about trans people
- (tags:transgender rights LGBT UK OhForFucksSake bigotry )
- 4. Edinburgh in 2026, by the numbers
- (tags:Edinburgh stats )
- 5. What is the Gen Alpha Melody, where does it come from, and why has nobody been sued yet?
- (tags:music video copyright viaSwampers )
- advertising,
- bigotry,
- copyright,
- edinburgh,
- funny,
- lgbt,
- links,
- media,
- music,
- ohforfuckssake,
- rights,
- stats,
- tea,
- transgender,
- uk,
- viaswampers,
- video
uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuUUUUUUUUgh! 28°C today after several weeks of 11-14°C. I'm not acclimatized. Give me a run up at least. And it's going to be 32°C on Monday. Half of me is Neanderthal! I have the red(ish) hair, I have the pale skin that doesn't tan. I'm not built for this.
I cannot picture me cycling for an hour through the heat, then spending an hour weight lifting, then cycling back for another hour. Not without making myself sick. And it is Daughter's birthday party in London tomorrow.
That will involve much travelling by train and underground to get there, a lot of noise and socializing while there, and then much travelling back. That's enough in itself to result in a fibro flare-up. Doing it immediately after a strenuous day under hot sun would be extremely reckless.
Especially because we are also planning to go to the Crick Boat Show on Monday (32°C! You never used to get temperatures over 30° in England in my lifetime and now it's normal, apparently.) And I'm planning to go and help Son pump the boat out on Tuesday. All of which things require me to be reasonably functional.
I feel bad because I had almost a week off last week - I don't want to get out of condition - but equally, I ought not to be sick for Daughter's birthday. I think I might give today's exercise a miss and hope that I have become acclimatized to the heat by next Wednesday when it's time to do it again.
Chronic illness calculus. So much fun :)
Day 22: Best and worst fusion with another genre
The best has to be the western saloon scenes with Travis, Docholli, and Chenie in Gambit even though there's a Mardi Gras going on in the background.
The whole Picture of Dorian Gray thing was too blatant. If they'd named him something else, then it would be a nice horror fusion, but they went the unsubtle route, even making the clothes he stockpiled for everyone but Avon grey.
The worst was Paul Darrow hovering a hand over his guns as if he's fanning six-shooters from the old west. Seriously?
All the questions are on Tumblr.

Iori, a highschool student, fantasizes about being held by handsome men. His stepbrother, Ayato, has a face that's just his type. Though he spends his days masturbating with his stepbrother in mind, he tries to stay away from Ayato, as he becomes overcome with lust whenever he smells Ayato's scent, or sees his cold gaze. Just when Iori is trying to prevent himself from getting carried away, thinking "I have to stop this," he discovers Ayato, who has brought a guy into his room...
My Rate: 7
Yuuho Okita’s "Naimaze na Netsujou" (/ Muddled Passion) is a textbook example of a high-friction, high-heat stepbrother romance. Published by Overlap under their LiQulle label, it delivers exactly what fans of the "heavy psychological attachment" trope look for: intense eye contact, massive height differences, and complex family dynamics. The story balances on a fine edge between Iori’s internal guilt and Ayato’s external coldness. What makes the inciting incident work so well is how it upends Iori’s expectations: Iori thinks he is the one with the dirty secret, guiltily projecting his desires onto his stepbrother. Ayato bringing another man into his room isn't just a random act—it functions as a direct trap. When Ayato confronts Iori with the line, "You want to be held by a handsome guy, right, big bro?", the dynamic completely flips. Iori realizes he isn't the predator hiding in the shadows; he is the prey being actively cornered. Okita’s art style carries the emotional weight of the book. Ayato is drawn with incredibly sharp, piercing eyes that emphasize his dominant, "alpha" presence. The manga relies heavily on physical contrasts—the visible size and build difference between the brothers heightens the tension during their encounters. While it starts under the guise of a convenient arrangement (a friends-with-benefits setup to hide behind), the narrative quickly shifts into mutual obsession. It becomes clear that Ayato's cold shoulder in the past wasn't dislike, but rather a mask for his own heavy, deep-seated feelings toward Iori. The story doesn't just stay in the bedroom. It steadily unravels why the brothers grew apart in the first place, teasing past family secrets and childhood letters that explain Ayato's current behavior. This manga features themes of stepfamily incest, highly possessive behaviors (bordering on yandere), and an initial relationship dynamic built on manipulation. Iori is incredibly weak to Ayato’s face. If you prefer protagonists who put up a strong defensive fight, Iori’s quick surrender to his own lust might feel a bit frustrating. He is entirely driven by his physical attraction to his brother. The emotional tone is thick and heavy. The angst stems from the classic BL paradox: using physical intimacy as a substitute for communication while both leads hide their real feelings. "Naimaze na Netsujou" handles the forbidden stepbrother trope with beautiful artwork and a solid emotional payoff in its final chapters. It avoids being purely episodic by tying the physical relationship directly to the resolution of their childhood trauma. For readers who enjoy intense, slightly toxic mutual pining wrapped in gorgeous visuals, this single-volume work delivers a satisfying punch.
Auteures : Lu Fraser & Sarah Warburton
Langue : traduction française de l'anglais
Type : album jeunesse
Genre : apprenons à compter et à poser nos limites
1ère parution : 2022
Édition : Little Urban
Format : grand album carré

(trouvé à une braderie de qaurtier l'an passé je crois ? pris parce que la couverture est fabuleuse !)
Un dromadaire nommé Doug se sent un peu seul dans le désert. Jusqu'à trouver un copain, deux copains, trois, quatre
D'abord la fête est très très amusante, et puis au bout d'un moment ça fait trop d'excitation pour lui...
Ok c'était sympa comme tout ♥
Very cute and ~fabulous~ kiddie book that teaches 1) how to count 2) that's it's ok to feel both lonely and overcrowded.

Eisei, who had been confessed to by his childhood friend and neighbor Tsukio when they were kids, rejected him, and they've been distant ever since.
One night, while he's skipping school after being publicly teased by his ex about being bad at sex, sinking into negative thoughts alone, he reunites with Tsukio in front of his house as he's kissing an older woman.
Under the promise of helping him get back to school, he starts hanging out in Tsukio's room, spending time as if the past confession never happened, and little by little, his wounded heart begins to heal――...
In the midst of that, when he sees a message from an unknown older woman on Tsukio's phone, and despite supposedly liking him, he prioritizes the contact—Eisei tells him that if he doesn't want to be hated, he should teach him techniques since he's bad at sex. His kind attitude suddenly changes, and he's tossed about by Tsukio's teasing yet pleasurable sex――?
My Rate: 7
If you are a fan of childhood-friends-to-lovers stories wrapped in angst, hidden pining, and sudden relationship dynamic shifts, Seifuku, Shinya 2-ji hits all the right notes. The story follows Eisei, who is at an absolute rock bottom. Not only is he skipping school out of pure humiliation after his ex-girlfriend publicly mocked his sexual performance, but his emotional isolation is compounded by a years-long estrangement from his childhood friend and neighbor, Tsukio. When they finally cross paths again, it’s under the most jarring circumstances: Eisei witnesses Tsukio kissing an older woman. What starts as an awkward attempt to bridge the gap—with Tsukio helping Eisei return to school—quickly spirals into a tense, emotionally charged arrangement. When Eisei's jealousy and insecurity boil over, he makes a reckless proposition: Teach me how to be good at sex. One of the most compelling aspects of Kouki's writing in this volume is the duality of Tsukio. For the first half of the story, Tsukio plays the role of the patient, comforting childhood friend. However, the moment Eisei pushes his buttons by asking for "lessons" (while assuming Tsukio is just casually fooling around with older women), Tsukio’s mask drops. The transition from gentle caretaker to a dominant, slightly teasing, and intensely passionate lover creates fantastic romantic tension. Eisei’s character motivation is deeply rooted in a wounded ego and a fear of rejection. The manga handles his negativity realistically—he isn't just upset about a breakup; his entire self-worth has taken a hit. Spending time in Tsukio’s room initially acts as a safe haven, making the eventual shift into a sexual relationship feel high-stakes and emotionally raw. The driving force of the plot is the lack of honest communication. Tsukio has clearly harbored feelings for Eisei ever since the childhood rejection, adapting his lifestyle and persona around that boundary. Eisei, blinded by his own insecurities and the sight of the older woman, misreads Tsukio's actions entirely, leading to a volatile mix of jealousy and desire. Kouki’s art style is clean, expressive, and excels at capturing subtle shifts in facial expressions—particularly the contrast between Tsukio’s polite "everyday" face and his intense, dark expressions during their intimate moments. The intimacy in this manga is high-friction and heavy on the sensory details. Because it stems from Tsukio's pent-up frustration and Eisei's desperate need validation, the sex scenes are intense, beautifully drawn, and highly satisfying for readers who enjoy a bit of a "mean/teasing" edge to their love interests. Recommended for readers who love childhood friends reunited, hurt/comfort dynamics, dynamic shifts in bed, and a healthy dose of jealousy-driven angst. If you want a quick, high-heat read with genuine emotional backing, this one is definitely worth adding to your digital shelf.
He came from privilege, his dad an Admiral, if you can call it privilege to have been dragged around the globe in the wake of an alpha male.
He told the world his parents were dead, only they weren't. He grew his hair, dressed in leather, talked Rimbaud, waved his dick around. A vid I just watched tells me the new persona was fully formed before he found a vehicle for it in the Doors.
Oh, he was so fortunate to happen upon those musicians! They created the sound- the hypnotic sound- the carnival sound- that backed his carrying on. He needed them. Have you read the art he created on his own- the poetry? It's not very good. He'd have been nobody very much without them.
Would he have been happier as a nobody? That's the road untravelled.
As he aged he wanted out of the act. It was making him ill. He wanted to be Jim- only who was Jim? Was Jim even a thing?
There are parallels with Elvis. The King, the Lizard King, two legends built on sand. The Fat Elvis and the Fat Jim of their later years have the same blank moon-face. The face of a Fool.
But we are all fools. If you are a Tarot reader or a Shakespearian you'll know that being the Fool is a good thing.
He stopped showing up for the Doors. Then he went to France. There are reports that at the end he wasn't always drunk or high, but would sit at cafe tables staring into space- scribbling in a note book, writing a new self.
Changing his skin.
As with Elvis there's a theory that he faked his own death. It's not impossible; people do.
You gotta die to live.......


Obnoxious drunk and self-proclaimed life of the party Kuniaki Sako is a typical college student with more free time and energy than he knows what to do with. That is, until he gets picked up by the angelic Sho Shioya, who teaches him a whole new world of sensation.
After a bunch of twists and turns, the pair become a happy couple.
When Kuniaki tells his best friend, Nan, the news, she tells him that if he's going to date Sho, he needs to learn to act like a human... And, that means learning self-awareness and responsibility.
Can Kuniaki, the infamously "cute drunk" (according to Sho), really manage to do that...!?
Includes: A "first time" involving squid, a blood-spattered bathtub, a mysterious pair of ladies' shoes... A cardboard chest of drawers, an inexplicable sliminess, a forbidden drain... And, something Sho's been waiting for all this time: his first staydate with Kuniaki!!
Follow the antics of boyfriends Sho and Kuniaki, and their happy-go-lucky college friends, in this new nonstop action-packed romantic comedy series!!
My Rate: 7 (www.ebookrenta.com/renta/sc/frm/item/147339)
If you are tired of the same old formulaic college romance BLs and want something that violently oscillates between laugh-out-loud absurdity and genuinely sweet relationship growth, The Doggy And The Fairy Prince! by Kaibashira is an absolute must-read. At first glance, Kuniaki and Sho seem like the ultimate "opposites attract" trope: Kuniaki Sako, a chaotic, high-energy college student who lives to party, gets obnoxiously drunk, and has the impulse control of an overexcited puppy (hence the "Doggy" in the title). Sho Shioya, The "Fairy Prince" himself—angelic, patient, and completely captivated by Kuniaki’s absolute mess of a personality. What makes this volume so fun is that it skips past the initial "will-they-won't-they" angst and dives straight into the reality of them actually being a couple. The comedy hits its stride when Kuniaki’s best friend, Nan, delivers a brutal reality check: if Kuniaki wants to keep his angelic boyfriend, he needs to learn how to act like a functioning human being. Don't let the sweet title fool you; Kaibashira weaves a delightfully bizarre web of chaotic elements into this story. The synopsis promises a wild ride, and the manga absolutely delivers. Without spoiling the context, you can look forward to: An incredibly unconventional "first time" involving... squid? A crime-scene-worthy blood-spattered bathtub. An apartment mystery featuring a cardboard chest of drawers, a forbidden drain, and inexplicable sliminess. While these elements sound like they belong in a horror or thriller manga, Kaibashira masterfully spins them into high-octane romantic comedy. The "nonstop action" isn't explosions or fight scenes—it's the sheer momentum of Kuniaki trying to survive his own lack of self-awareness during his very first official staydate with Sho. Kaibashira’s art style perfectly matches the tone of the book. The expressions are incredibly expressive, transitioning seamlessly from beautiful, soft romance frames (usually reserved for Sho) to hilarious, exaggerated comedic faces (mostly Kuniaki panicking). The supporting cast, particularly Nan, adds a great layer of grounded humor to balance out Kuniaki’s chaotic energy. The Doggy And The Fairy Prince! is a refreshing, fast-paced, and deeply funny BL. Underneath the squid-infused chaos and the apartment mysteries, it’s a genuinely heartwarming story about a chaotic guy trying his absolute best to grow up and be responsible for the person he loves. Recommended for fans of chaotic comedy BL, established-relationship dynamics, energetic "himbo" protagonists, and readers who love a healthy dose of weirdness mixed into their romance.
Title: Considering Valentino
Rating: T
Type: Fic
Word Count: 200
Prompt: earth
Fandom/Ship: Husk & Valentino
Notes/Warnings: Canon-Typical talk about Valentino.
Summary: Husk had more in common with Angel's oppressor than he'd like to admit.
Link: Masterlist
- 2026-05-01 May day holiday at home
- 2026-05-02 Double Wars prep at home
- 2026-05-03 double wars prep at the workshop
- 2026-05-04 it may not be a problem at this time
- 2026-05-05 Rörmokaren kommer tillbaka!
- 2026-05-05 Rörmokaren kommer tillbaka!
- 2026-05-06 stuff to the trailer
- 2026-05-07 första del av resan till Dubblekriget
- 2026-05-08 day two of the journey to Double Wars
- 2026-05-09 the camp is up
- 2026-05-10 Caspians AoA
- 2026-05-11 a rainy day
- 2026-05-12 bardic!
- 2026-05-13 LSPD
- 2026-05-13 Wednesday
- 2026-05-14 market day-wild pig roasting-great court
- 2026-05-15 Nordmarks furstinna fyller år
- 2026-05-16 on battery alone
- 2026-05-17 new day, new car
- 2026-05-18 and home again
Why, in all of these stories about someone who wants to be something or someone else, was it always the individual who needed to change, and never the world?
Subtitled 'On Fairy Tales, Disability, and Making Space', this is partly a memoir of the author's experience of cerebral palsy, and partly a survey of the ways in which fairytales 'other' people with disabilities, people who don't look right, people who are different.( Read more... )
Today I finally feel like I have time to do a simple list of links cross post, for any of you who might like to be filled in.
- 2026-04-09 a visit from my apprentice
- 2026-04-10 resan till Kronturneringen
- 2026-04-11 Crown Tournament
- 2026-04-12 Hamburg and Copenhagen airports
- 2026-04-13 continuing the slow journey homewards
- 2026-04-14 Ary arrives
- 2026-04-15 inspirational lecture
- 2026-04-16 Ary departs
- 2026-04-17 such a relief
- 2026-04-18 games night
- 2026-04-19 better, much worse, and then better again
- 2026-04-20 new gym
- 2026-04-21 garnet beads for the win
- 2026-04-22 my champion
- 2026-04-23 blå på skåpet
- 2026-04-24 antlers done
- 2026-04-25 project day at home
- 2026-04-26 hantverksträff
- 2026-04-27 naps don't mean less work done
- 2026-04-28 home alone
- 2026-04-29 went in just for fika
- 2026-04-30 Valborg
For the second time in two months, a photo I posted to Flickr has been chosen by Explore and thus has a lot of traffic and likes (that doesn't translate over to my account or other photos). Again, it's from St. John's Cemetery. Again, I have no idea how Explore chooses photos since this current photo isn't unusual or striking from what I usually do. I understand their choice from March better. Again, Explore has chosen a photo I've taken involving the Picarelli site, since last year Explore chose this one, shot May 2025.I guess it's cool that a photo of mine has been chosen by Explore three times in the last year, and it's not like I'm deliberately shooting things to get their attention since I have no idea what they look for.
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Trying to get Gerry Rafferty's "Baker Street" on CD from the Queens Library sent me down a rabbit hole since I could only get it on compilations of variety of music. (For redundancy's sake, I got it on two different CDs, which unexpectedly led me to having an album version and radio edit version of the song, which I am quite happy with.) The radio edit version is on Hard to Find 45s on CD, Vol. 14: 70s and 80s Pop Classics, which also netted me "The Promise" by When In Rome, "Cool Night" by Paul Davis, "I Love You" by Climax Blues Band, and this song, which had an especially full and moody sound on the CD, "The Captain of Her Heart" by Double, all songs I used to hear a lot at the time of their release but not often since.
Then, after about an hour's wallow in vintage mellow pop, I switched over to Nine Inch Noize.
Comment with Just One Thing you've accomplished in the last 24 hours or so. It doesn't have to be a hard thing, or even a thing that you think is particularly awesome. Just a thing that you did.
Feel free to share more than one thing if you're feeling particularly accomplished! Extra credit: find someone in the comments and give them props for what they achieved!
Nothing is too big, too small, too strange or too cryptic. And in case you'd rather do this in private, anonymous comments are screened. I will only unscreen if you ask me to.
Go!
Do you have a rec for this week? Just reply to this post with something queer or queer-adjacent (such as, soap made by a queer person that isn't necessarily queer themed) that you'd, well, recommend. Self-recs are welcome, as are recs for fandom-related content!
Or have you tried something that's been recced here? Do you have your own report to share about it? I'd love to hear about it!
I love sweet tea, wether it be hot or cold. Not too much sugar either.
22. Today Vivid Sydney starts in Sydney, Australia (and continues until 13th June). Iconic landmarks and urban spaces glow with stunning light installations and 3D projections, captivating both locals and tourists with a vibrant playground of lights, music, and creativity. Have you ever seen a city light show similar to this?
I've never seen anything like it. I would like to.
