Respectfully, without knowing more of the circumstances than you're sharing here, that sounds like a relationship style that currently caters more to Significant Other's anxieties than your needs. If you are interested in resources / scripts to help Significant Other deal with zir anxieties more effectively and you to feel more comfortable asserting & having your needs met, there are some Captain Awkward articles (and for that matter, Dear Sugar ones) that I would recommend without hesitation. What you are describing here sounds exhausting on a day to day basis, and unnecessarily so.
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Date: 2013-07-25 09:26 am (UTC)