We don't celebrate birthdays or anniversaries in my house, neither my partner nor I, as a way to reduce event-related stress.

In fact, the last year or two, I've finally forgotten how old I am on a regular basis. I consider this positive progress. :)

Folk: Have you ever heard Vance Gilbert? I fell in love with his album Shaking Off Gravity. Link: https://vancegilbert.com/cds/f/CDs/36