There's a lot of places I feel sorry for her? In a very general sense, before I go back to be really frustrated and hurt and annoyed at the damage she's done to a community I care a lot about, and making the lives of some specific people I care about a lot more stressful than they needed to be.

(And a lot of places where I look at my background and hers, and wonder how I figured some of this stuff out, and she clearly hasn't?)